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Dinner
and a Movie Again?
By Heather Jaillett |
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Are
you tired of the same old routine first dates? Need a change
from the dinner and a movie routine? Why not do something
that gives you some insight into each other’s personality and
is interesting? Not that I’m totally against dinner and
a movie as a first date or even a tenth date. There is
the benefit that you don’t have to think about what you’re going
to say next for at least 90 minutes (even longer if it’s a Kevin
Costner epic). I just think that a change needs to
occur when I’ve seen all of the movies playing this month at
the local megaplex. Another downside to dinner and a movie
is that it can be inconvenient for those of us who work the nightshift. So
I am offering the following ideas to inspire you to get out of
the dating rut, whether it’s your first or tenth.
For
the romantic, a picnic is an ideal choice as long as the weather
cooperates. For inclimate weather you may have to get creative
in your location, but don’t give up hope. Traditionally,
picnicking is something that established couples do, but don’t
be afraid to suggest it early in your romance. In addition
to having as simple or elaborate meal as you choose, you can
bring along a Frisbee or ball to play catch. You can also
take a walk. For the less ambitious or weather bound, you
can people watch or share a paper (Sunday papers work especially
well). Another benefit is that daylight dating adds a little
bit of safety, and you can always have an escape excuse if things
aren’t going the way you planned (Examples: I’m babysitting
for a friend, I’m having my teeth cleaned, I have to have dinner
with my parents – you get the idea.). People also seem
to be more honest about themselves in the cold light of day,
which is always refreshing. Finally, there is the benefit
that you can always continue the date into the evening if things
are going exceptionally well.
Another
great date place is a theme park. If you live near one
of the larger ones, like Disneyland, it can be expensive. Call
and ask about local resident discounts, and if you have friends
that work there ask if they can get you a passes at a reduced
rate. Don’t overlook the smaller carnivals and festivals
in your area. It can be significantly less expensive and
equally entertaining. These sort of places have a little
of everything, so you should be able to find something the two
of you can enjoy. This is also a great choice for that
first date with his or her children.
Sports
and hobbies are also excellent dating opportunities. Are
you a member of a club? Invite your next date to a club
activity. Mountain biking, hiking, in-line skating, tennis,
or any joint hobby can be excellent first date material. They
provide an activity that you both have a common interest in. Also,
there is no better way to bring out the dark side of people than
competitive sports. Wouldn’t you like to see that up front? You
can also impress your date with your skill, or get a few pointers
from him or her.
The
whole point though is to do something that is interesting and
allows for you to get to know each other better. Even if
you don’t click on a romantic level, you can always have an enjoyable
afternoon that won’t leave you feeling like you should have done
your laundry instead. |
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Heather
Jaillett is a freelance writer from Washington State. After
extensive dating she finally found her soul mate. She still
advises many on dating solutions, and is constantly researching
relationships and romance. Exploring ways to add romance
to electronic communication is also another pursuit she enjoys.
Heather
Jaillett writes for DrDating – a
web site for anyone looking for love online. We have hundreds
of articles, E-Books and links to some great dating and love
sites all over the world. DrDating also offers reviews of some
of the most popular dating sites and books.
http://www.DrDating.com |
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